And she can see Kate and Michael signing to each other, these two deaf adults functioning just fine, having a conversation with each other. About Us.
Brand Publishing. Times News Platforms. Real Estate. Facebook Twitter Show more sharing options Share Close extra sharing options. Robert Lloyd. Follow Us. Robert Lloyd has been a Los Angeles Times television critic since Previously, he held that position at L. Weekly, whose music editor and critic he also was for some years, and was the author of the Today column at the late Los Angeles Herald-Examiner. That inability to recognize pitch, moreover, only applied to music -- not language. When the melody and lyrics of popular songs were presented separately, the amusic participants were generally able to recognize spoken lyrics, but were significantly impaired in their ability to tell whether they had heard a tune before.
It's been difficult for researchers to get over the idea that, with enough exposure to music, people born with amusia might somehow learn to listen. But even as music has become even more pervasive think iPods , the condition persists. Last year, Peretz and her team looked into the potential to train young people with amusia, who they reasoned might have enough brain plasticity to be somewhat remediated.
They gave 14 amusic to year-olds their basic test for music-hearing ability, then sent them home with MP3 players loaded with popular music songs they found on the Internet, such as "No One" by Alicia Keys , which they were instructed to listen to for 30 minutes a day. Four weeks later, they were retested. The kids tried.
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They ended up listening to their MP3 players for closer to 45 minutes a day. But at the end of the month, not only did they fail to improve on the tests, how poorly they scored correlated with how much music they reported listening to. They found that amusic people's difficulties on the test stemmed from delayed or otherwise impaired functioning of two areas of the brain, the frontal and auditory cortexes, during the early encoding of melodic information.
What's more, the researchers detected physical abnormalities in those brain areas. For example, they had more grey matter and less white matter than is usual in the frontal cortex.
My heart just breaks daily. I can see him going deeper and deeper into this rut or whatever I can call it? I need to do something but dont know what. Thank you for responding to my post and sharing your own story, it does help a lot not to feel alone It is very difficult as a mum to try help one's adult son when they shut the door and resent you more and more if you try to get close to them It has been over two years for me and my son is increasingly isolating himself while trying to get better by himself, refusing any form of help I have been seeing a psychologist so I can get a little bit of support and advice on how to cope and support my son It has been helpful as I understand better his deep social anxiety and depression, yet there is very little I can do until he accepts to seek help.
However I am learning to step back, trying to engage him in 'general' conversations rather than personal ones which make him run away, and I am slowly and gradually asking him to contribute to more and more bills and living expenses as he is living full time with me I am separated from his father , to take responsibility for his actions, or inactions! There are also some 'self-help' books that can be useful if your son is happy to read - mine is not, well, anything I suggest is rejected, and there is no one else around who can reach out to him I would be more than happy to continue this conversation with you if you feel it could be useful.
Take care of yourself too! I too am in this exact situation except our boy is Its easily the hardest most heart wrenching thing I've ever had to endure! I feel like I'm losing my beautiful boy to his demons and i am failing in my job as a mum How can i help him if I don't know how?? I also found out this week a friend of mine took his own life at 27 yrs old.
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You are not alone in this, I know the pain your heart feels as mine feels it too xx good luck to you and Valerie and each of your boys. Sorry i have no answers for you xx. Thank you Valanne for responding. When I came here to seek help and read your post I nearly couldn't believe it. Someone else going through the exact same situation. It is so hard as they are adults and you really have no way to make them listen anymore.
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It has been over 2 years for me too now since it started and definitely getting worse all the time. Yesterday "mother's day" I had visitors and family over for a get together for see a friend traveling back to USA, and he literally didn't speak a nice word to me the whole day. I always wonder to myself that one day Will he ever see things differently.
I have a daughter too who is a year older and doesn't stay at home a lot of the week as her boyfriends house is closer to her work. She had some difficulties when she was between 14 - 18 or so, but has come around and has achieved so much in her life so far.. I raised them both alone - just the three of us always. I just dont know what has happened to him. It started with anxiety of not wanting to go out with his friends to clubs or out at night.. I can tell he is frustrated with himself and bored as he gets quite angry at times, but he is not willing to accept any help at all or do anything to help himself.
BUT he is very obsessed with those motivated people on YouTube etc -- watches them and even preaches to me about it but seems to not take action himself. He is a health food and organic foods fanatic.. I have tried to get him to open days at Swinburne etc to look at nutritional courses.. Says he will I feel for you.. As I said above my daughter went through a rough patch between 14 - BUT she was different as she was very verbal and told me everything she was feeling and how bad a mum I was!!! What I am saying I guess that at 15 you can still guide him maybe more so I think that if he is older..
Medication helped my daughter get through her high school years and as soon as VCE was done.. A change of school helped us too but as I said her issues were different that what my son is going through now.
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Yes you are right.. I am in Melb. I would love to meet too, but I guess distance is an issue.
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Its feels nice to talk to someone though that know what I am going through. I feel like they don't truly understand what is going on and how I feel. I like the quote you put up there. It is so accurate. I feel a major problem with my son is that he is not prepared to put himself outside is comfort zone.. I feel he is getting worse and worse at a rapid rate. He almost cannot even communicate with me at all. Mostly he just mumbles answers or makes noises.. I feel just like you.. I have run out of ideas at the moment. We do have good days every now and then when he seems to make an effort..
If he shows an interest in anything I try to research all I can and get info and try to work out a way to get in or get there etc.. He recently wrote I would give anything to help him back to his old self when he was happy and loved life.. I would give my blood, my kidney, or any other parts to fix him - if that would help. Sometimes I really feel so scared So helpless to do anything.
As a mum my job is to make sure my kids are well and safe I wish I had done things differently when this first started to happen.. Now the things I could have done 2 years ago are not going to help now. I've raised my kids alone their whole lives I've always been strong and dealt with anything.. He sounds like my son, do you think he is trying to create conflict for the sake of it so he can learn to stand up for himself?
Affirm himself? Sounds quite unbelievable given that they are 20…. I know it is easier said than done…. I must be talking to myself!! May I ask if his absent father could be a reason for his depression and anxiety? Does he have any contact with him? Sorry to ask if you feel it is not appropriate…. I sometimes forget to check back here.. I wish there was a way we could talk better but I think we are not allowed to contact outside the forum. Maybe moderators can clarify this? My son has always had a good relationship with his dad - from whom I have been separated since he was 1 year old.
His dad moved overseas a few years back to get married and my son even went over there for the wedding and stayed for about 4 mths which was great. I got lots of photo messages with smiles and looked like all was going good, I hoped that things were getting better , but the new wife was not so acceptable of him being there and not doing much so i believe from second hand information , so he came back home. He did do some labour work while there, which he said he enjoyed, but then nothing came of it at home again.
His dad tells me that he messages my son all the time to catch up etc, but he rarely replies to him and doesn't want to see him. My son tells me that he doesn't enjoy being with his dad. I often try to encourage visits, but since their father has had an argument with my daughter also - he is not coming to the house any more!!! We tried many times over the years working together for the sake of my son to encourage or help him out. Im sure his issues are not to do with his dad not being around.
Although it would be nice if his dad had the room he lives with other people in shared accommodation to take him for a while and share some time with him. Not that I want to shirk my responsibilities I have been reading about something called the Thrive Program, and although its not too cheap..
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